So, it was sooner than I expected, but yesterday the ex Mr BB moved out. Ouch. Sitting and wallowing has been a favourite pastime of mine for the last few days, but as from today I'm determined to try and start focusing on the positives of the move. Like, my lovely little Laura Ashley sofa finally being allowed in the living room! And perhaps I'll finally find time to get my little hall wardrobe painted up too.
Happy Weekend, everyone!
Good for you! The only way is up!!
ReplyDeleteThink of all the pretties you can have without feeling guilty!
Seriously though, take care and remember your blogging friends are always here for you!!
-x-
Huggs to you.x x x it gets better. x
ReplyDeleteI do hope that you are okay. Even though you know they are going when they are actually gone it kicks! I'm always here should you need someone to listen x Sue x
ReplyDeleteThe only way is forward from now on xxx By the way I was just looking at one of your old posts and I realised you are in Lincolnshire? (I'm in Horncastle). I think the post was about the earthquake of all things! :)
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. Embrace the positives and be kind and patient with yourself xox
ReplyDeleteDefinitely focus on those positives, I'm sure we girls would live in very different homes with out men!! xxx
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear this, it must be hard. However, onwards and upwards! Glad you are focussing on the positives x
ReplyDeleteThat's the best thing to do, focus on the positives and look ahead, never back.
ReplyDeleteHugs
kandi xx
I'm thinking of you and sending you good wishes and prayers. I know your future will be bright and I pray for continued strength and joy for you.
ReplyDeleteHelen xx
Oh lovey, I'm so sorry! As you say though, it's the end of one chapter and the beginning of a new one. Try and focus on all the things you can do now without having to accommodate a man - you can get more exercise, go out more, have all your girly things in the house, watch as many chick flicks as you like, eat healthily. These are all the things I really struggle with when in a relationship. Easier said than done, but make the most of it an enjoy it! Hugs. Sian x
ReplyDeleteP.s I adore that little 1930s cupboard!
I'm so sorry to hear about the sad time you are having, I hope you are okay. Your home looks so beautiful and I adore the suitcase and picnic basket xxx
ReplyDeleteYeah to new beginnings and doing what you want to do x
ReplyDeleteLeah x
Yay for little Laura Ashley sofa's in the living room!! Who needs a man anyway when there are such delights!!!!
ReplyDeleteLove & hugs,
Jo x x
Big Hug. and YAY for Laura Ashley! There's a dame you can rely upon.
ReplyDeleteSending you a hug x I love your little wardrobe as it is though :0)
ReplyDeleteYou are very brave, well done for focusing on the positives! P.S. I love the sofa and the hall! x
ReplyDeleteAlways a difficult time no matter how strong and positive you try to be......
ReplyDeleteI found keeping busy helped me focus on other things and not myself and I also found out I am capable of more than I thought I was.
Doing things I had previously let the other half do.
It was an empowering time a little scary at times but I survived and you will too.
Here's to happier times.
Claire ♥
I have been there too. I didn't find it easy to begin with, but one of the things that did help was turning the house into 'my little cottage', and I busied myself with paint & paintbrush etc!! Also it was a lot tidier with him gone, even with two children!!
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine, and look forward to see your homemaking : )
Sharon xx
Sorry I'm so late stopping by to hear this news, and I guess a lot has been going on esp as you've been unwell too!
ReplyDeleteDo enjoy your little home of your own.. I too sometimes wallow when I'm sitting in on my own of an evening but other times I love it! Even tonight I've had a nice day and then came home, had an early evening nap, it's 1am in the morning but now I'm watching X Factor... doing some blogging... pottering about as I please - I love it!!
Victoria xx